ways2work - Parents and carers
Preparing for the interview
Arriving early and looking the part, will help you appear competent and enthusiastic when going for an interview.
Get there on time
If you've not been to the interview location before and are unsure how long it will take to get there, do a practice run and time yourself. In planning the rest of your day make sure you allow enough time, as interviews can take up to an hour, and they may be running behind schedule.
On the day, get there 10 to 15 minutes early. Sometimes an employer will give you a copy of the interview questions before the interview starts and if you’re there early, you'll also have longer to review the questions.
If you're running late or can't make it due to a last minute emergency, make sure you ring the employer as soon as possible to let them know.
Does this look right for my job?
The most important part of making a good first impression is to make sure you select an outfit that matches the position. If you are applying for a position in an office or a shop, wear a business suit or dress. If you are applying for a job working on a warehouse floor wear neat casual, and for a labouring position wear clean, tidy and safety-conscious work clothes. If you find you don’t have anything suitable in your wardrobe and you can't afford a new outfit, you could consider borrowing something from a friend, looking in a second hand shop, or contacting a group like Fitted for Work.
Fitted for Work helps Hurriyet look the part
Hurriyet* is a 38-year-old Turkish Australian who lives in Reservoir with her Italian husband and two daughters, aged seven and eight. After seven years of full-time parenting, Hurriyet decided to return to work. She made contact with Fitted for Work, a not-for-profit service committed to helping long-term unemployed and disadvantaged women obtain work, maintain employment and ultimately achieve financial independence. Read more about how Fitted for Work helped Hurriet feel confident and ready for her job interview….
Your overall approach
You should aim to be friendly, confident and assertive in any contact with a potential employer. Open, honest communication is the way to go.
Help notes really do help
Bring along your application, resume and a list of questions you might like to ask and any points about your skills, experience and knowledge that you want to remind yourself to mention in the interview. You could also bring samples of your own work to show if that's appropriate.
If you have a panel interview
Each of the panel members will probably have their own questions to ask you, but try to address your answers to all members of the panel. It’s important to make a good impression on each panel member as they all contribute to the decision about whether they offer you the job. Greet each of them individually by making eye contact and try to remember and address them by name, especially as you thank them for their time and say goodbye. This demonstrates your attention to detail and will leave them with a good impression.
Your body language
So much happens without us saying anything: we smile to show happiness, stare to show aggression, open our palms to show honesty, shake hands firmly to convey sincerity. Your body language conveys your personality and in an interview situation, it’s best to show a sense of inner self-confidence.
Do’s:
- smile
- shake their hand
- look them in the eye as you introduce yourself and when asking and answering questions
- stand up straight and don't slouch in your seat
- lean forward when you are listening to the question and nod to show that you’re paying attention and are engaged in the conversation
Don’ts:
- stare into space, slump or doodle because you will appear bored
- cross your arms tightly as you’ll look like you’re disagreeing with them
- tap your foot or fingers – if you know you're a fidgeter fold your hands in your lap
- stare as this can make people feel uncomfortable
- point as this appears aggressive
- clench your hands too tightly – this can seem defensive
If you know you will feel agitated see the Nerves are OK section for hints on how to work through your nerves.
Things to think about during an interview
- Remember to turn off your mobile phone so it doesn't ring during the interview!
- Silence is okay, it lets the employer know you are thoughtful. But if you're struggling ask them for help.
- Speak clearly and try to keep your answers to the point – about four minutes or less.
- Be completely honest about what you’ve done, your achievements or skills.
- Don’t criticise your present or former employers.
I'm not sure I've understood your question?
If you do not clearly understand one of the questions they ask at the interview – ask for clarification. This will give a much better impression than struggling along off topic. It's also a good idea to ask whether you've answered their question and whether they would like more information.
More information
- Fitted for Work helps women obtain work by providing business clothing and helping with presentation and interview skills. Fitted for Work takes clients by referral only. Referral agencies include job network agencies, tertiary institutions and other organisations committed to supporting women improve their life chances. For more information visit the Fitted for Work website.
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